Are you a help saboteur? (Do you sabotage your partner’s help?) Some might understand what this means without further explanation. For those who don’t, you might be a help saboteur if:
- You wish for your partner to take some things off your plate, but when they do, they don’t do it “right”.
- You feel very strongly that the “right” way (aka your way), is the only way.
- Your motto is “If you want it done right, do it yourself.” (Just kidding – sort of.)
If this sounds like you, don’t worry—you’re not alone. Millions of relationships are affected by this every day.
All joking aside, in the months leading up to the arrival of our first child, I knew I was going to have to get better at accepting help from my husband around the house; I simply would not be able to do it all.
I also knew that I would be annoyed.Read More